D’Avalon “Dee” Durham, a cherished soul known for her loving nature and spirited zest for life, passed away peacefully on September 23, 2025, in Kansas City, Kansas, after a brief battle with cancer. Born on March 13, 1937, in Ellsworth, Kansas, Dee was a beacon of faith and love to all who knew her.
Dee, the daughter of Melva and Ralph Minear, grew up in a close-knit family with her brother Butch. She embraced the values of family and community from an early age, which continued to resonate throughout her life. Her parents and brother predeceased her, as did her beloved husband, Bob, and daughter Tresa.
Despite the challenges she faced, Dee’s faith never wavered. She was a devout Christian, finding strength and solace in her religion. Her steadfast belief was a source of inspiration and comfort to her family and friends.
Dee's educational journey was marked by her determination and resilience. She received her GED and went on to earn college credits, proving that it's never too late to pursue one's goals. Her professional life was dedicated to serving her community as a bookkeeper and co-owner of Rodrick and Minear Funeral Home.
Family was the cornerstone of Dee’s world. She is survived by her loving daughters, Jeanine Innes and husband John of Kansas City, Kansas, and Becky Hallauer and husband Eric of Holton, Kansas. Her legacy continues through her five grandchildren and six great grandchildren, who will carry forward the memories of her love.
Dee enjoyed reading a good book that captured her imagination. She enjoyed playing Mexican train dominoes, a pastime that brought laughter and joy to many gatherings. Above all, spending time with her family and friends was her greatest pleasure.
Her absence will be deeply felt by many who take solace in knowing that her spirit is now at peace.