Valerie K. Sare, 73, of Abilene, Kansas, passed away at Wesley Medical Center on Tuesday, February 17, 2026, at 7:27 p.m.
Valerie was born on January 12, 1953, in Abilene, the daughter of Kenneth and Bonnie (Mock) Bourbina. She was united in marriage to Ron Sare on November 3, 1973, in Abilene, Kansas.
Valerie’s life was defined by compassion and service to others. She operated a daycare for many years and also worked as a waitress while raising her children. Later, she pursued a career in emergency services, serving as an EMT for both Abilene and Herington EMS. Her dedication to caring for others inspired her to attend Kansas Wesleyan University, where she graduated as a Registered Nurse in 1992. Valerie continued her career as an RN at Herington Municipal She was preceded in death by her parents, Kenneth and Bonnie Bourbina; and one nephew, Travis Bourbina.
Valerie is survived by her loving husband Ron of the home, and three children:
· Troy (Kelly) Goth, and their children Colton Adam-Goth, Kamber Musgrove, Katie Harrod, Joseph Picking, and Jackson Goth, as well as many grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
· Jody Sare, and his children and grandchildren; Kaden (Tiffany), Dylan, Olivia, Caleb, Kelsey, and Mireya Sare.
· Christina (Patch Anguiano) Sare, and their children and grandchildren; Blake (Catalina), Emmett, Selena, Kameela, and Haylee Anguiano.
She is also survived by her brother Kenneth Bourbina Jr. and his wife Char.
Valerie had a love for life and a heart for family. She enjoyed camping, fishing, sewing, quilting, cooking, and most of all, spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Her greatest joy came from being surrounded by family—babysitting, sharing stories, and creating cherished memories. In recent years, she also enjoyed online shopping, especially on Amazon and Temu.
Valerie’s kindness, humor, and unwavering devotion to family will be deeply missed by all who loved her.
Graveside services for family and friends will be held at a later date to be announced later.