Nouphinh Detvongsa, 59, of Salina, Kansas, passed away peacefully on November 15th, 2025, surrounded by the love of his family and friends. He faced many health challenges with courage over the years, beginning hemodialysis in the early 2000s and receiving a kidney transplant in 2018. During his final week, he was cared for at KU Medical Center, enveloped in the presence of those who treasured him most.
Born on January 5th, 1966, in Laos, Nouphinh was a devoted son and a beloved husband, father, and grandfather. He will be remembered for his infectious humor, his generous spirit, and the warmth he brought into every room. Nou had an extraordinary gift for bringing people together, forming lifelong friendships with ease and creating community wherever he went.
He lived life with joy and passion. Whether casting a line at his favorite fishing spot, caring for his chickens, or spending time outdoors with his wife, friends, or son-in-law, Nou embraced the simple moments that made him happiest. He excelled at every hobby he took on, and he shared his talents freely with those around him.
Though his absence leaves a deep ache, Nou’s love, laughter, and light will remain forever in the hearts of those who knew him.
Nouphinh is survived by his wife, Khampong Detvongsa; his children, Nit Abington and husband Emmanuel Abington, Eric Detvongsa and wife Lurdes Detvongsa, Nicky Cooke and husband Carl Cooke; and his cherished grandchildren: Layla and Love Abington, Leonardo Detvongsa, and Sophia, Taylor, and Calvin Cooke. He is also survived by four sisters and one brother.
He is preceded in death by his parents and his granddaughter, Charlee Abington.
A service honoring Nouphinh’s life will be held at the Buddhist Temple of Salina on Saturday, November 22nd, 2025, at 11 A.M., with the cremation continuing at Ryan Mortuary & Crematory at 2 P.M. A Celebration of Life will follow at his residence, where friends and family will gather to remember and honor the beautiful life he lived.